When are you official dating

The relationship at the moment is either working for you or it’s not.I think there are a few traps in this sort of situation.

Everything is pretty much perfect- we love spending time together, he really cares about me, we spend almost every night together, and we’re pretty much a ‘couple’ in the conventional sense.As a result, their “advice” is more about the women projecting their own frustrations outward onto that girl’s relationship.Still they are her friends and she trusts their opinion. I’ve seen guys in a relationship go out with their single guy friends – after a beer or two, his buddies are ragging on him for being in a relationship and venting their frustrations. It reminds me of my overweight Phys Ed teacher in middle-school.One is staying in a relationship you are not happy in and haven’t been happy in for a while, but you’re staying in it because of the “potential of what it could be.” Frankly, if you don’t like it the way it is, it probably will not change unless he is motivated to change it.If it has not been working for you for a while, then your best bet is probably to lay your cards out on the table: “This is the change I need or I need to leave.” You will either get it or your relationship will end – either way, you’re off the fence instead of settling for an unhappy situation.

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