Rejected by women dating
Here’s how it works: escalate, then you’ll end up in the friend zone anyway… I thought about this a lot when I was learning to surf.There would be waves that were bigger than I felt comfortable with.or perhaps you approach her at a bar but she keeps turning to her friends and ignoring you.I find it’s tough to turn these situations around, because if she’s rejected you in this way, it means you’re not making her – and when she’s out to have fun, she wants to feel good.
Give me your number and I promise I’ll only text you twenty times a day“.
And if you’ve ever surfed, you know that the physical pain of getting held down under a big wave is pretty scary!
It got me thinking – what’s worse: physical pain, or emotional pain?
My suggestion when you meet with this kind of rejection is to push on and keep going for it anyways. If you give up at the first sign of resistance, you fail the test.
So a lot of times pushing through will actually get you the girl, plus as a bonus you will become more confident because you will be training yourself to stare rejection in the face and not back down from it.