Gypsy dating rituals
All we know are strewn facts from a reality show and bits of bits of typecasts that we have picked up along the way.
The world fell in love with the idea of modern gypsies in part because of their secrets.
With the average Gypsy marrying in their teens, it does help explain this occurrence.
Although girls are allowed to showcase their commodities through clothing, dance moves, and hair styles, they are taught to look and not touch.
In fact, many people did not even know that there was a modern day gypsy until the premier of the hit show on TLC, “My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding.” The Romani Gypsy community claims that the show is misrepresenting their culture, but many of us have no idea why, because we do not know much about them to begin with.We picture her next to a wagon, perhaps, for everyone knows that gypsies are travellers, right? This is completely false and leads to a lot of incorrect generalizations.The stereotype of a gypsy man is far worse; he steals things. There are actually two main types of Gypsies—Roma Gypsies and Irish Travellers.Young girls are expected to marry between the ages of 16 and 18, although some Roma are now saying that only 18 is an acceptable age. These marriages are generally arranged by the boy’s family, who look for a strong Roma girl to join their family.Tradition holds that a girl should have no more than four boyfriends beforehand, and she is encouraged to turn down suitors multiple times before eventually giving her OK. As with many close-knit religions and groups, it is very important that Romani marry other Romani.