From dating to relating
Yes, in a healthy relationship, agreements can actually eliminate arguments.
However, you must come to these agreements in the Relating stage.
This is the stage were you work out your differences, build a solid foundation for healthy problem solving and co-create an easy, loving partnership.
During the Relating stage, you will learn: • How to determine if your personal styles, values and dreams are compatible.
During the Mating stage you will learn: • How to see each other for who you really are instead of trying to fix or control one another.
• To turn toward one another instead of away from each other — even in the hardest of times.
• How to communicate while avoiding blame, personal attacks and feelings of abandonment. Believing that you know how to create the perfect relationship, in spite of uncomfortable evidence to the contrary, is a sure ticket to frustration.
• To maturely express your deepest emotions without fear of being judged. Thinking that it’s everyone else’s fault is the worst possible sign.
(You see, I am always trying to improve my abilities and learn new things.) I was ASTONISHED to learn that the so called GURUS’ statistics were not as good as mine. They are good guys and you can learn some real truth from each one of them.Well I’ve been using the same techniques he does, probably before he was even born.His techniques work – but only on a certain type of club woman. Because I cover ALL the personality types and I give you three radically different club techniques. is the internet Dating GURU, but when I compared my Internet statistics to his, I was getting twice as many responses and three times as many dates than he was.The Dating stage is too early and the Mating stage may be too late.• How to ask for what you want, instead of complaining about what you didn’t get.