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INFPs aren’t the only personality type that experiences struggles like these, but I believe INFPs (and other sensitive introvert types) will especially relate.(What’s your personality type? Pair that with my introversion, and I am the romantic equivalent of a sloth.
Take a free personality test.)Dates are awful for introverts for one major reason: It’s small talk for at least an hour — and we small talk. For example, I recently dated someone for about six months, and his criticism of me after a couple of months was that I was somewhat aloof in person.
However, in incompatible relationships, they may idealize their partners as having qualities that they do not actually possess.
At times, INFPs have difficulty reconciling the inconsistencies between reality and their romanticized views of life.
And because deep connections take time to develop, I’ve only had a few serious romantic relationships. And more often than not, I don’t feel a connection with him and have a really hard time faking it for the rest of the date. And I usually date extroverts, so this works out fine — they’re always willing to chatter away!While those with Thinking and Judging preferences view direct confrontation as an honest way to communicate, INFPs may view the conflict as a disapproval of their character.When forced into conflict, they are less concerned with who is right and who is wrong.But usually, my mind is racing and distracted with things like: Does he like me? I’ve often described myself as extremely intense, unfiltered alcohol (or coffee, if you prefer): I feel like most people cannot handle me at my most full-on level without some dilution. And it’s always weird, no matter how much I like — or don’t like — the guy.