Dr dobson 10 commandments dating
In other words, the amount of touching and caressing and kissing that occurs in the early days tends to increase as they become more familiar and at ease with one another.
Likewise, the amount of contact necessary to excite one another increases day by day, leading in many cases to an ultimate act of sin and its inevitable consequence.
This progression must be consciously resisted by Christian young people who want to serve God and live by His standards.
They can resist this trend by placing deliberate controls on the physical aspect of their relationship, right from the first date.” ― tags: a, act, amount, an, and, as, aspect, at, be-consciously, become, between, boy, by, by-christian, can, caressing, cases, consequence, contact, controls, date, day-by-day, days, deliberate, early, ease, excite, familiar, first, from, girl, god, his, in, increase, increases, inevitable, is, its, kissing, leading, likewise, live, many, more, must, necessary, occurs, of, of-touching, on, one-another, other, people, physical, placing, progression, progressive, relationship, resist, resisted, right, serve, sexual, sin, standards, tends, that, the, their, they, thing, this, to, tred, ultimate, want, who, with, words, young “A guy never has a right to force a woman to have sex with him under any circumstances.
Fully 60 percent of all females who lose their virginity before age fifteen say that their first sexual experience was forced!
That is a tragedy with far-reaching consequences.” ― tags: a, able, and, any, are, at, be, circumstances, consequences, criminal, denial, experienced, far-reaching, females, first, force, girls, guy, has, have, he, him, honor, lose, many, must, never, no, point, raped, right, say, sex, sexual, she, should, so, that, to, today, tragedy, under, virginity, with, woman, women “Failure to put the relationship on a slower timetable may result in an act that was never intended in the first place.
Another important principle is to avoid the circumstances where compromise is likely.
A girl who wants to preserve her virginity should not find herself in a house or dorm room alone with someone to whom she is attracted.
It is criminal that so many girls and women are raped today.
Nor should she single-date with someone she has reason not to trust.
A guy who wants to be moral should stay away from the girl he knows would go to bed with him.
Here we go: If you speak disparagingly of the opposite sex, or if you refer to females as sex objects, those attitudes will translate directly into dating and marital relationships later on.
Remember that your goal is to prepare a boy to lead a family when he's grown and to show him how to earn the respect of those he serves.