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“My sister was the more rebellious one,” Nancherla notes.
“She started dating in high school, and she created a lot of friction in our household.
It felt more like a race to catch up rather than meet “the one” or fall in love.
I was just trying to get up to speed on what everyone else was doing.
“If I’m kissing someone, how do I know it’s going OK? ”Raised in northern Virginia by Hindu Indian immigrants, Nancherla was the younger of two daughters.I met him at night in his car and gave him a hand job, but it was just like a transaction. And then the same thing with this other guy in college.We basically went on a date but not really, he came back to my room and I gave my first blow job, but it was so bad.It was tied to the unit on learning about drugs and alcohol; so it was all sort of meshed together into, “These are all the vices you will engage in later in life.” It wasn’t approached as, “This is a healthy normal thing that everyone will end up probably doing regularly.”Maybe not tying it to drugs and alcohol would help? Lux Alptraum is a writer, sex educator, comedian, and consultant.Past gigs have included serving as the editor, publisher, and CEO of Fleshbot, the web’s foremost blog about sexuality and adult entertainment; editor-at-large for Nerve; a sex educator at an adolescent pregnancy prevention program; and an HIV pretest counselor.