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So, which techniques can help you get out of your head so that you can actually relax and enjoy your date?First, wear a distracting clothing item or accessory.If you feel anxious, channeling some of that anxiety into the pressure on your fingertips can help to distract you from your anxiety or from thinking too much about whether you seem nervous or shy to your date.If the fingertip exercise doesn’t do the trick, try something else with your fingers, including massaging each finger or rubbing your palms slowly.In fact, you need to simultaneously work on managing the anxiety that so many shy men and women feel on a new date.

You don’t want to be focusing on what you’re thinking, or what your date is thinking, so wear an article of clothing or accessory that your date can comment on.The behaviors I highlight above all work to get you out of your head and into the moment so that you can enjoy your date in real-time – not just survive it.My final reminder is that nothing breaks the ice quite like plain old honesty, so don’t be shy – ahem – about telling your new date that you’ve had the shy bug for years.As a psychologist who is frequently a guest expert on television, I had to learn to become comfortable on camera. My first appearance was years ago on “Good Morning America,” and I essentially froze on camera.Similarly, I’ll never forget my first time on the “Nancy Grace” show; after watching the recorded show later, it appeared as if someone had been holding a gun to my head as I spoke.