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Furman, a professor of psychology at the University of Denver, said adolescents' lack of social skills and emotional control can make relationships difficult.
Yet, he said, romantic relationships can also be significant sources of support that offer teenagers fun and companionship, help them forge mature identities and offer them practice in managing emotions.'' Growing up involves risks,'' he said.
Some saw a star-crossed couple who found understanding, joy and maturity in each other's arms.
Others saw impulsive kids whose reckless passion cut them off from family, friends and more appropriate interests, provoked mood swings, delinquent behavior and experimentation with drugs, and ended in tragedy.
Last December, The Journal of Health and Social Behavior published a study called '' You Don't Bring Me Anything but Down,'' which reported that compared with unattached peers, involved adolescents were somewhat more vulnerable to depression, delinquency, alcohol abuse and problems with school and parents.
Furman said, the point of a crush ''is mostly to be able to say you have a boy- or girlfriend,'' and to start to know the opposite sex.
Next, he said, boys and girls date in groups -- ''you kiss, then go to the movies'' -- and become more interested in the close companionship sought by older teenagers.
The most likely of all teenagers to become depressed are romantically involved girls ages 12 to 14, said Dr.
Kara Joyner, a sociologist at Cornell University, who conducted the study with Dr. Richard Udry, director of the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, based at the University of North Carolina.