Dating advice shy people
They might offer me some weed, ill compliment their bowl or pipe ir whatever and talk about some bowl or pipe stories or weed stories I have, or ask them which band they are here to see and talk about that.
Dont just be like yes/no/maybe/same because you dont feed the fire of conversation with repsonses like that.
What’s worse is that I don’t even notice I’m being tense.
After sometime on the date I get more comfortable, and they would all end up wanting to see me again because they enjoyed themselves (which I don’t understand how tbh) but I want to be comfortable from the get go but it’s so hard for me for whatever reason.
Report any rule violations using the report button. 22m) I was afraid of talking to a girl that got my attention at a lunch table at my college, because I've always, had low self esteem and assumed I'd appear creepy to others, I overcame it and talked to her.
Isn’t it ok to just ask people out on a whim because they make you happy? I can't help but wonder if I should call him out on his lie.
These questions are your friends: All of this and Find something interesting about them and compliment it. It took 4 years for my SO to even try to talk to me at all, and we’ve been together for almost 3 years.
I do this to random people just because I genuinely think something about them is neat and the bonus is that it makes them feel good and gets a reaction. I never talked to them bc I thought they were too cool to talk to me, they thought I was too cool to talk to.
I try and ask questions like that and insinuate small talk and I try to act “normal” but every guy I’ve been on a date with would all tell me I was really tense.
I didn’t and still don’t mean to be, it just happens.