Christian sermons dating relationships
Attraction should never lead you; you lead it (decide what you allow yourself to be attracted to i.God, to your husband or wife, to the Word; Not to a T. Don’t be fooled by mystical feelings (“If I see her today I’m supposed to be with her”). God created the 2 sexes with a “need” for each other – don’t deny this but seek God’s wisdom in it (1Cor., James 1:5).
Men exhibit certain characteristics of God better than women do. Analytical determination (naturally analyze every situation). Together (as the body and in marriage the two sexes will exhibit all of his characteristics (if Christ is on the throne). Saying and doing what they want to hear and see in order to get them to do what you want them to.
The entire book of Song of Solomon discusses romance, marriage and sex.
God says marriage and sex are great and satisfying (Heb.13:4, Pr.-19).
Selfish relationships (self on the throne) produce almost every problem on the planet.
Jesus said the entire law is wrapped up in loving him and each other (Mat.-40). 1Affection, 2Friendship (should be “Agape” or unconditional), 3Mariage (a married man and woman, this also involves agape, but there is more to it than that!!! All 4 areas involve Attraction (Attraction is an emotion which involves admitting something is nice and beautiful compared to lust which is choosing to selfishly use, desire or gratify).